If you were wondering if I ran out of weird things Mila does last week, I didn’t. There was just other things to share.
Don’t worry, she’ll always be full of weird things.
Mila’s bedtime routine consists of brushing hair and teeth, reading books, and snuggling. But, a couple months ago, she added something new.
Every night before bed, Mila brings fruit snacks and Capri Suns for a midnight snack. It’s almost on cue. When she’s tired but still fighting sleep, she gets up and gets in the snack cabinet. Then comes with her hands full with these sweet treats.
Every. Single. Night.
I guess it’s sweet that she thinks about me and brings me snacks too. She could just keep them for herself… so that’s sweet.
It’s just a really weird thing to have added into a bedtime routine, especially after her teeth are brushed.
I’ve said it once, I’ll say it again, toddlers are just really weird.
Three nights ago, I had a scary incident. I still have the bruises on my arms to remind me what happened.
Since it’s happened, I’ve been unsure if it’s a loss mom thing or a general parent worry. Either way, I wanted to share it with everyone who reads this little blog because you’ve followed my family’s story this far.
So, I have a barn door for my bedroom door. The doorway is in between my bedroom and living room. My mom and I built it and it’s pretty heavy and sturdy. It’s fallen off the tracks a few times, mostly when I’ve been messing around with it and no little living thing is in the way.
The other night, Mila and I got home later than normal. Max was super excited to see us. As I’ve stated before, he can get a little hyper.
I fed Max and gave him a bone to calm down. Afterwards Mila and I walked into my bedroom and I didn’t latch open the sliding door. Max figured out we weren’t in the living room anymore and took off to my room.
While he was running, the door was shutting. Mila was going toddler speed and was only a few steps in front of the door when it happened.
Everything that happened next was in slow motion.
Max tore through the door and knocked it off the track. I saw it pop off and lift up. Then it started to tilt.
I yelled for Mila to move. All my anxiety could just imagine the door smashing into her.
Of course, she was frozen because she didn’t know why I was yelling. The dog looked scared… probably because it hurt a lot and he knew I was upset.
As it falls more slowly and everyone’s still froze, I had to jump into action. When I took that first step, time caught back up.
I threw my arms under the heavy door as it neared Mila. Somehow I kicked her to safety too.
The door landed on my wrists and forearms. There’s cuts and bruises, but nothing I can’t handle. Mila was upset and the dog was too, but everyone was safe.
After it all happened, I just kept thinking of what could have happened.
Whatif I was in the laundry room and didn’t see it happen?
What if I didn’t catch it in time?
How serious would it have been?
Would she have gotten badly hurt?
What can I do tomake this safer?
Even though everything turned out ‘okay,’ all those questions scare me. I don’t know what I would have done if she had gotten hurt.
I think after losing a child, the thought of losing another is always right there.
Anxiety is always in me. When I’m not with Mila, it skyrockets because I can’t be there to save or help her. It’s exhausting to always keep worrying and thinking of the bad.
These cuts and bruises on me remind me that she is safe and I’m doing my best.
I’m never going to be able to protect her from everything; I’m just learning how to manage that.
Do you overthink situations like this? Or can you just put it in the past?
Since last week’s one pot recipe went so well, I figured I’d share another delicious one. It’s another Italian inspired recipe, but with a different taste.
Gnocchi is one of my favorite foods and I love how easy it is to cook with. You’ll love it too.
Here’s the ingredients you’ll need:
1 lb mild ground sausage
1 16 oz package gnocchi
1 onion diced
Minced garlic
1 can garlic and olive oil petite diced tomatoes
3/4 cup heavy cream
3 cups spinach
Shredded mozzarella cheese
Salt and pepper
Italian seasoning
Garlic powder
Honestly, there’s more ingredients than there are steps with this recipe. That’s how you know it’s good and easy to clean up.
First, over medium heat, brown the sausage, onion, garlic, and seasonings.
After, add in the tomatoes, cream, gnocchi, and spinach. Keep cooking until the gnocchi is done, spinach is wilted, the sauce has reduced.
Then, stir in the cheese. I ended up adding extra cheese after putting it in the bowl.
This recipe is so easy to make and it warmed us up. I loved the different textures in the meal too. Plus, you can sneak in some extra veggies, which we all need.
As always, if you try out this recipe, let me know how it goes in the comments.
There’s an age old question that plagues every household. My family of two has it and I’m sure families of a lot more have it too.
I’m not sure how it starts and I’m sure as heck not sure how to resolve the problem either.
So what’s this great issue? Take a look…
One type of silverware is lacking way more than the others. Our family’s most lost item: spoons.
Somehow Mila and I have been able to lose all but four spoons. I started off with a ton of regular spoons when I first moved in. Then bought the rainbow ones last year.
They’ve all but disappeared for no reason.
When I went on the great spoon hunt, here are some of the places I found them:
In the couch
Under Mila’s bed… that she’s never in
Dollhouses
Bags
Cars
Toy box
Laundry basket
I have no idea how so many spoons have disappeared, but I need a secret set to store away for when this happens.
So, what type of silverware goes missing in your house the most?
Max, our Old English Lab, suffers from separation anxiety and hyperactivity.
I never really noticed his anxiety until I started working away from home in the middle of last year. When I’d come home for lunch, there would be shoes torn apart or papers shredded. This was not typical behavior for him.
He’s always been a hyperactive dog. Mila and him play constantly and in the summer we take tons of walks. It never calms him down so he can relax.
After having some personal experience with CBD and seeing a post on Facebook about CBD oil and treats for dogs, I was curious in trying it for Max. So, I reached out to Happy Dogs CBD. They sent me CBD goodies to Max and me in exchange for a review.
Although I got the items for free, this is my honest review that I’m happy to share with you.
First, what’s CBD? It’s the second most prevalent ingredient in cannabis. So, yeah it’s in marijuana, but its not the ingredient that gets you high.
CBD is great for physical, emotional, and mental health. It’s know for it’s healing qualities.
In the past, it’s helped me with my anxiety, depression, and just overall mood. There’s many different ways to take CBD, but before Happy Dogs CBD gummies, I had only used the oil.
There’s SO much information about the benefits of CBD on the internet that is readily available.
Happy Dogs CBD sent Max and me four of their products: dog treats, oil, pain cream, and gummies. We have tried each product and I can confidently say we love them.
Every time Max sees me pull out his CBD treats, he gets so excited. It’s definitely not like trying to get him to take medications. He seems to enjoy their taste and has taken the bag out of my hands a few times.
I only give him two of these treats when I have to leave for school or if I feel like he’s anxious.
He can also take the CBD oil. When I give him this, I put it over his canned food in the morning before I leave for work. I’ve followed the dosage on the back and it works for him.
Again, he eats his food like normal and doesn’t notice a taste with the oil.
Both CBD treatments have worked wonders for Max. He’s much more calm and during the day, he’s able to be okay with just his bones and music playing. It’s been so nice to have him not get so excited. He would always jump and scratch me or accidentally run MIla over. Now we can actually play with him and he settles down after a while.
The toughest thing about starting CBD is getting the dosage right. I found that giving him it every day is too much for him. So, I’ll either give him the treats OR the oil and space a day in between.
This is the best for Max. Obviously, every dog has their individual needs. If you try these CBD treats, you’ll have to do what works for your dog… and self!
I was happy to try Happy Dogs CBD for people! Humans can use the same oil dogs do.
All you need is to put the correct dosage under your tongue for forty-five seconds. Then swallow the rest.
They also sent CBD gummies, just for human consumption. I take two every other day, if I don’t use the oil.
Just like dogs, people need to find the dosage that works for them.
The first day I took them, I got really sleepy. I’m unsure if it was a mix of not feeling my normal anxiety or if I just took too high of a dose. Either way, I kept taking them and feel amazing.
Happy Dogs CBD also sent some of their pain cream. I used it on my neck and felt a difference quickly. Honestly, I’ve only used it twice, but the times I did use it, I could tell a big difference. I think it’s a great option for individuals who are looking for a new pain cream.
Over all, I’m so impressed with the quality of the CBD and products in general. Their customer service rocks and they just want to help your him have Happy Dogs and humans!
If you’re looking for a natural way to treat hyperactivity, anxiety, joint pain, and yours and your pets overall health, you should look in CBD oil.
Happy Dogs CBD is such a great company to interact and work with. They shipped their products fast and safe too.
All of their products are great quality and I’ll definitely purchase more in the near future.
You can use their discount code ‘buy2get1’ to buy two of their products and get one for free. They’re also currently running a sale.
This is a wonderful time to help your dog and you improve your health.
I promise you won’t regret it!
Let me know in the comments if you’ve ever tried CBD products and let me know what you think of Happy Dog’s products.
Okay, I know everyone loves Pizza updates. You’d never imagine how central he is in our everyday life. This time, it was finally for my advantage though.
Mila has had issues with brushing her teeth since the beginning. I would have to hold her down to get them cleaned
I did different tricks like making her laugh, having her brush mine then me hers, and changing her tooth paste and brushes. For a few months, I even told her they’d fall out if we didn’t brush them. Some things worked… for a little while.
This time though, I’ve found the golden ticket
Since Mila has started dance class, she’s become this little performer. All eyes have to be on her and she loves when she gets to teach dance moves.
One morning, when it was time to brush her teeth, she did her usual refusal.
She was playing with Pizza and his friends and a light bulb went off. I asked her if Pizza knew how to brush his teeth. She said no and I asked her if she wanted to teach him.
Weirdly, she said yes.
For the extended weekend, she had to have an audience while brushing her teeth. I set them up in the morning and she did her lesson.
Now that it’s routine, she doesn’t give any complaints when I ask her to brush her teeth.
All it took was the power of teaching, Pizza, and a few toys.
Does your child have any issues with teeth brushing? What are some tricks you’d share that made the journey easier?
It’s National Random Act of Kindness Day! Although we try to do as many acts of kindness everyday, we wanted to share this today.
Mila loves her ‘kids’ and ‘girls.’ These kids consist of all her cousins and her girls are from dance class. She loves the time she spends with them.
When I asked who she wanted to share kindness with, it’s no wonder why she chose them.
We talked about why it’s nice and important to do nice things for other people. There was a mini brainstorming session about what we could do. Valentine’s Day definitely helped the matter!
Mila suggested flowers, so we compromised.
All you need to do to create these lollipop flowers are paper, scissors, and suckers! I used taped to secure the flowers too.
For creating the flowers, I just drew ones on the back of the paper and cut it out. To get the lollipop stick through, I pressed a hole in the middle with the scissors.
On the underneath of the flowers, I put, ‘I ♥ You! -Mila.’ Short and sweet!
We’ll be giving them out as soon as she sees her kids and girls. She loved how they turned out and wanted to hold them like a bouquet.
If we did a large scale random acts of kindness, I’d definitely add a quote to the flowers. These would also be adorable for a birthday party or class treat.
We’re so happy and excited to spread a little extra kindness in the world. This year, we hope we can do more random acts and bring joy to those who are least expecting it.
Let me know what you think about this kindness project in the comments below.
What’s better than a tasty meal? Not having a ton of dishes to clean up afterwards! This one pot dinner will be a family favorite and one you’ll love making.
Here’s what you’ll need;
One pound of hamburger
One medium sized zucchini
Small bell pepper (I used red)
One can of Hunt’s Diced Tomatoes with Basil, Garlic & Oregano
1/4 of onion
One cup of rice
Two cups of beef broth
Spices (I used salt, pepper, onion powder, garlic powder, paprika, and oregano)
Half a block of cream cheese
Cheese
First, heat up your pan. While you’re waiting, cut your onion, pepper, and zucchini.
Once it’s heated up add the ground beef, onion, and pepper. I added some of the spice blend. When it’s browned, drain the oil.
Next, add the zucchini, tomatoes, rice, and beef broth. Don’t drain the tomatoes because the rice will soak up that juice too! Add the rest of your spice blend here.
Cover and stir every couple minutes.
Once the rice starts to soften, add in the cream cheese. Mix it until it blends throughout.
When the rice is done, take off heat and add in cheese. You can use any type of cheese. We used shredded colby jack!
Mila is also obsessed with eggs right now, so I put an over-medium egg over top of hers and and an easy-over egg on mine. I personally love the taste of egg yolk. It pulled the meal together.
Make sure to let me know in the comments if you tried this recipe!
You try to share you love to everyone you hold close to your heart. No matter what’s going on, making sure they feel loved is most important.
There are nights you don’t sleep to make sure everything gets done for them.
When you need something like clothes or a new haircut, you make sure your kids or partner have them first.
Sometimes you spend hours listening to others to make sure they’re okay. You know your problems will work themselves out eventually.
Instead of a long hot bath or shower, you rush through yours or share them with your littles.
Your meals are cold because you make sure everyone else gets full first.
We put them first because we love them. We’re the glue the helps holds those we love together.
But…
You deserve the same love you give to others.
Never forget that you deserve a good nights sleep, a new hair cut and clothes, knowing your problems are important, a long shower or bath, and a hot meal.
That’s just touching the surface of all you deserve and need.
It’s hard to put yourself first or accept the love that we give out. When you do, don’t feel selfish. You are in need of those things too.
You cannot continue keeping everyone else afloat when you’re drowning.
Allow yourself that space. You’re worth it.
When you put yourself first sometimes, you give all those you love the opportunity to be around the best you.
More importantly, you get to give yourself that love that you pour into others.
If you need a last minute Valentine’s Day treat/present or are really craving something delicious, you’ll love these cookies.
They take about twenty minutes to make and everyone will want more. It’s easy too!
This recipe also reminds me of Jensen. I craved these throughout my pregnancy. They’re always fun to make and honor him too.
The best part of this recipe is there’s only FOUR ingredients:
Red Velvet Cake Box
Two Eggs
1/3 Cup of Vegetable Oil
Powdered Sugar
First, preheat your over to 375.
Then mix the red velvet cake box, eggs, and oil together. It’ll get to a cookie dough consistency. When it does stop mixing.
Next, make the dough into little balls. I did one at a time and then coated them into powdered sugar. Without the powdered sugar, they’ll stick to a baking sheet. That makes it hard to pick them back up again.
Put them in the oven for ten minutes.
After you pull them out, you’ll notice they’ll fall. Don’t worry, they’re not supposed to stay risen. They still taste fluffy!
One little word of caution with the doughs stickiness… throw some flour or something on your hands.
Mila tried to help before I could cover her hands and…
She had fun helping roll little cookie balls, but it got messy quick!
This would definitely be a great and quick way to surprise your kids, partner, or whoever your celebrating Valentine’s Day with!
Let me know what you think of this recipe in the comments.
Grey Skies & Rainbow Highs 